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Post by taytaytay on Jan 15, 2018 15:04:06 GMT -5
- Deep - Honest - Self-aware - NOT needy - Trustworthy - Won't try to change me - Won't talk negatively about me to his friends - Understands my dedication to my art - Will surprise me all the time - Will take me out to restaurants, dance clubs, etc. (doesn't have to be expensive at all!) - Will let me be independent & have my alone time - Appreciates nature just as much as I do - Doesn't smoke cigarettes Preferably with good hair (but that can be overlooked! haha) omg I feel you on the not needy thing I know that I personally can be needy sometimes but if someone tells me that I'm being too needy I can reign it in. I've dated guys before who needed so much from me and didn't care to control it when I said to them that they were asking too much from me, and it's so unattractive to be so needlessly needy. |
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Post by MyCastleCrumbledOvernight on Feb 1, 2018 23:03:25 GMT -5
You guys might get angry at me for posting this video here and if you want me to delete I will but this video is the only thing I can think about when I see this thread... I’ve never seen this before, but it’s really funny! |
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Post by MyCastleCrumbledOvernight on Feb 1, 2018 23:11:41 GMT -5
You know, watching Hallmark movies the first line of the relationship is like “do you like coffee?” Fixing to ask on a date and imma be like “no, I don’t.” I don’t like coffee, and besides I don’t find Starbucks the ideal way to get to know each other... let’s just take a walk man, since I mean we’re in a hallmark movie and we meant walking our dog anyway, let’s just keep walking.
My mother got married at eighteen. And I used to get that when I was younger, I wanted to get married young. And I still think I should get married in my 20’s. But these days, I can’t figure out how on earth she could have been mature enough for marriage at eighteen years old. I’m only three years younger than that and I’m too shy and immature to even approach a guy. So how the heck was she ready? Cause I’m just like standing around waiting for something to happen, when I haven’t even spoken to a “guy” in two years.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 24, 2018 20:53:44 GMT -5
I never really had an actual response to this thread but I think this sums it up.  I want to be this for someone as well as them be the same for me. |
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Post by Roman on Oct 25, 2018 1:12:43 GMT -5
You know, watching Hallmark movies the first line of the relationship is like “do you like coffee?” Fixing to ask on a date and imma be like “no, I don’t.” I don’t like coffee, and besides I don’t find Starbucks the ideal way to get to know each other... let’s just take a walk man, since I mean we’re in a hallmark movie and we meant walking our dog anyway, let’s just keep walking. My mother got married at eighteen. And I used to get that when I was younger, I wanted to get married young. And I still think I should get married in my 20’s. But these days, I can’t figure out how on earth she could have been mature enough for marriage at eighteen years old. I’m only three years younger than that and I’m too shy and immature to even approach a guy. So how the heck was she ready? Cause I’m just like standing around waiting for something to happen, when I haven’t even spoken to a “guy” in two years. I guess that's the condition to get married young: you need to date and be together with "the one" at a young age. It varies from person to person. And my suspicion is that eventhough nowadays young people think they are mature quickly, they really aren't. While in the "old days" people actually grew up faster and became mature at a younger age. And btw: when someone asks you out for coffee, don't take it literally. Any beverage is fine. They just want to hang and talk to you. You can always take a walk before or afterwards if you like that. |
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Post by taytaytay on Oct 26, 2018 2:16:25 GMT -5
You know, watching Hallmark movies the first line of the relationship is like “do you like coffee?” Fixing to ask on a date and imma be like “no, I don’t.” I don’t like coffee, and besides I don’t find Starbucks the ideal way to get to know each other... let’s just take a walk man, since I mean we’re in a hallmark movie and we meant walking our dog anyway, let’s just keep walking. My mother got married at eighteen. And I used to get that when I was younger, I wanted to get married young. And I still think I should get married in my 20’s. But these days, I can’t figure out how on earth she could have been mature enough for marriage at eighteen years old. I’m only three years younger than that and I’m too shy and immature to even approach a guy. So how the heck was she ready? Cause I’m just like standing around waiting for something to happen, when I haven’t even spoken to a “guy” in two years. I guess that's the condition to get married young: you need to date and be together with "the one" at a young age. It varies from person to person. And my suspicion is that eventhough nowadays young people think they are mature quickly, they really aren't. While in the "old days" people actually grew up faster and became mature at a younger age. And btw: when someone asks you out for coffee, don't take it literally. Any beverage is fine. They just want to hang and talk to you. You can always take a walk before or afterwards if you like that. Yeah, on the second point-coffee is good because there’s no time commitment. You go out for a drink and if it goes badly you can leave whenever. If it goes well, you’ll probably want to go for a walk or something and spend more time together. If you only go for a walk, you’re committing to spend X amount of time together until your like back at the start of the route or at a place where you can leave easily, plus I’m not sure you should be going on walks to potentially isolated places with people you don’t know that well! |
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Post by SomeFearlessChick on Oct 27, 2018 1:40:12 GMT -5
Ugh just talking about and thinking of being a potential father makes me feel old. It’s depressing that in 20 months I’ll be in my mid 20’s. I'm 26 and I keep injuring myself. Better start saving for a hip replacement. Maybe a walking frame. It's downhill from here lmaooooo. |
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Post by SomeFearlessChick on Oct 27, 2018 1:46:49 GMT -5
Tbh I'd just want someone who's not a complete idiot lol  Up top for the bar being set so low. |
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Post by Roman on Oct 27, 2018 2:18:56 GMT -5
Ugh just talking about and thinking of being a potential father makes me feel old. It’s depressing that in 20 months I’ll be in my mid 20’s. I'm 26 and I keep injuring myself. Better start saving for a hip replacement. Maybe a walking frame. It's downhill from here lmaooooo. Awh, you silly youngsters! *sits back in his rocking chair* |
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Post by taytaytay on Oct 27, 2018 11:56:51 GMT -5
Up top for the bar being set so low. With standards that low I could be a potential dating partner.  Please raise your standards. You could do so much better. lol dw, I promise I do have higher standards! they have to be rich as well |
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Post by Deleted on Jan 9, 2020 3:35:17 GMT -5
Sorry to dig this thread up but I saw this today and immediately thought of this thread. But this. Especially the understood part.  |
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Post by Roman on Jan 9, 2020 6:03:16 GMT -5
Sorry to dig this thread up but I saw this today and immediately thought of this thread. But this. Especially the understood part. She's got a big wishlist. The question is what does she do/offer to compliment her partner. |
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Post by SomeFearlessChick on Jan 11, 2020 2:08:36 GMT -5
Sorry to dig this thread up but I saw this today and immediately thought of this thread. But this. Especially the understood part. She's got a big wishlist. The question is what does she do/offer to compliment her partner. I think it's more of a vent. Finding someone who's right for you in even the simplest ways seems like a big ask sometimes. |
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Post by Roman on Jan 11, 2020 2:54:29 GMT -5
She's got a big wishlist. The question is what does she do/offer to compliment her partner. I think it's more of a vent. Finding someone who's right for you in even the simplest ways seems like a big ask sometimes. And the biggest problem (at least for me) is that if you find someone like that, it’s not mutual. |
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Post by Joe 🍀 on Jan 11, 2020 5:29:08 GMT -5
Dear future spouse, you probably know me very well, therefore you know I will let you do "whatever" you like, and I will support you in it, but please do not make it too hard or do anything that can shorten your life (mine too), thank you very much  ... and also do not stress, be honest and communicative (because I can not read your mind, even if I am trying all the time) ... |
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