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Post by Deleted on Jan 6, 2018 15:06:59 GMT -5
You guys might get angry at me for posting this video here and if you want me to delete I will but this video is the only thing I can think about when I see this thread...
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Post by Deleted on Jan 6, 2018 18:11:31 GMT -5
Alright, pathetic "type" shiz 1. No beard/mustache. a stubble is fine. 2. longer hair. 3. Bright expressive eyes now forgoing the shallow stuff that can easily be forgotten if you meet the legit hopes of a future love. 1. you actually tolerate and handle me at my worst. You don't deserve my best if you can't take me at my worst. 2. You are honest. Don't tell me lies. 3. I love a guy willing to wear his heart on his sleeve...open about feelings. 4. I like someone who will try to make me laugh even though he knows I am a super serious type. 5. someone who I trust enough to be spontaneous with. 6. Someone who can talk to me intellectually and yet do childish things too. yep. I thought you would say " Needs to be Samuel Larsen" but all that defines him!  |
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Post by JDMaleSwiftie on Jan 6, 2018 18:51:32 GMT -5
You guys might get angry at me for posting this video here and if you want me to delete I will but this video is the only thing I can think about when I see this thread... I think you have to do that IMO. Anyone expecting to find the perfect husband or wife will be disappointed. We can have our preferences and things of nature, but ultimately I think we all just want someone who will truly love and accept us and whatever flaws they have you’ll take and be more than happy to live with them because we each have our own as well. I used to be naive and think “I wanna marry someone like Taylor Swift” and that’s exactly what that thought process was. There aren’t people like that walking around every corner and Taylor herself may seem flawless to us, but those who know her personally probably recognize she isn’t 100 percent perfect either. I’m at a point where I’ll take what I can get and just really simplified things. I want a girl who truly loves me which at times I question if that’ll happen, but deep down know that person exists. Someone who’ll be there for me. I want to have someone I can talk to about anything. Although personality is important I won’t fool myself into thinking looks don’t matter. They do. I believe you have to be physically attracted to someone, but also recognizing that’s only part of it. Ultimately I hope I can find that special someone or them to find me, but if I do I promise I’m never letting them go because someone like me probably won’t be lucky enough to get a second chance. |
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Post by Deleted on Jan 6, 2018 19:13:50 GMT -5
You guys might get angry at me for posting this video here and if you want me to delete I will but this video is the only thing I can think about when I see this thread... Ha, that guy is funny I could never lower my expectations. I feel like mine are pretty basic. I mean why would you want to settle for someone that doesn't meet your expectations? |
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Post by JDMaleSwiftie on Jan 6, 2018 19:15:10 GMT -5
You guys might get angry at me for posting this video here and if you want me to delete I will but this video is the only thing I can think about when I see this thread... Ha, that guy is funny I could never lower my expectations. I feel like mine are pretty basic. I mean why would you want to settle for someone that doesn't meet your expectations? Some people’s expectations are way too high. |
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Post by Deleted on Jan 6, 2018 19:19:09 GMT -5
Ha, that guy is funny I could never lower my expectations. I feel like mine are pretty basic. I mean why would you want to settle for someone that doesn't meet your expectations? Some people’s expectations are way too high. I get that but I don't think anyone should lower their expectations. They will just be unhappy if they have to settle for someone. |
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Post by Deleted on Jan 6, 2018 19:19:22 GMT -5
I hope that you like Loud people
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Post by Kim Bjarne Sørensen on Jan 6, 2018 20:16:03 GMT -5
Finding the right spouse, I have done a long time ago.
I also had some requirements that were very important to me.
no smoking.
And it is important that we accept Our spouse interests, and the other way around
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I can mention that I still have big speakers in our living room and it will not be different.
The rest is hard to explain.
It also takes some luck to find someone you can love and enjoy.
With best regards
Kim B S.
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Post by JDMaleSwiftie on Jan 6, 2018 20:17:15 GMT -5
Some people’s expectations are way too high. I get that but I don't think anyone should lower their expectations. They will just be unhappy if they have to settle for someone. I don’t agree with that because I don’t see it as settling. I look it as adjusting your expectations. |
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Post by Deleted on Jan 6, 2018 20:17:55 GMT -5
@recklessflames his name is Bo Burnham he has some really good comedy routines.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 6, 2018 20:27:16 GMT -5
I get that but I don't think anyone should lower their expectations. They will just be unhappy if they have to settle for someone. I don’t agree with that because I don’t see it as settling. I look it as adjusting your expectations. What if you are not happy when you adjust your expectations? Obviously, if you have ridiculously high standards you'll be severely limiting your dating pool but if someone is okay with that then they shouldn't lower their expectations. |
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Post by Deleted on Jan 6, 2018 20:27:42 GMT -5
@recklessflames his name is Bo Burnham he has some really good comedy routines. Okay! I'll look at more of his videos. |
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Post by JDMaleSwiftie on Jan 6, 2018 20:31:44 GMT -5
I don’t agree with that because I don’t see it as settling. I look it as adjusting your expectations. What if you are not happy when you adjust your expectations? Obviously, if you have ridiculously high standards you'll be severely limiting your dating pool but if someone is okay with that then they shouldn't lower their expectations. Well if you’re not happy with them then you should probably move on. That was really my main point. Some have ridiculously high standards. I knew I used too, but I realized life doesn’t work like that. You have to lower them not too low, but just make sure they’re manageable. |
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Post by Deleted on Jan 6, 2018 20:44:14 GMT -5
All I want in a future girlfriend/spouse: someone who is as weird and immature as I am, and whose idea of a dream date is staying at home with some take out food and YouTube. Is that too much to ask for?
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Post by Deleted on Jan 6, 2018 20:50:51 GMT -5
All I want in a future girlfriend/spouse: someone who is as weird and immature as I am, and whose idea of a dream date is staying at home with some take out food and YouTube. Is that too much to ask for? It depends on how weird you are, but I don't think it's too much to ask for. You should be able to easily find someone that enjoys a stay at home date. |
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