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Post by JDMaleSwiftie on Apr 10, 2022 23:14:19 GMT -5
Had a date last night it was fun I suppose, but my biggest takeaway is I’m so incredibly awkward with women. It’s not cute or funny it’s honestly embarrassing. Just even more reason to believe I’m destined to be single forever. Heck I’m awkward with everyone of any gender, I think the only people I can have a social interaction with without dying of embarrassment is old people, they seem to like me for some reason. It’s just something you gotta get used to, it’s easier to be friends first I think I’m awful when it comes to making female friends. I honestly don’t really have any. |
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Post by TimeOfMyLife on Apr 15, 2022 5:37:20 GMT -5
Had a date last night it was fun I suppose, but my biggest takeaway is I’m so incredibly awkward with women. It’s not cute or funny it’s honestly embarrassing. Just even more reason to believe I’m destined to be single forever. You have a lot of Youtube Channels with tips and advice on how to get better/ less awkward with or around women. It's honestly worth watching it, every tip and every step is welcome, right |
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Post by sparksfly713 on Apr 16, 2022 13:32:27 GMT -5
I'm ready to burn the world down right now. I don't know if I'm more angry or sad about the fact that the universe seems to just be laughing at me right now but this feels like a giant april fools day prank and I'm really done with it. Okay now that I'm a lot less ready to burn the world down. starting about 5 years ago, I was kind of seeing someone for about a year and a half who didn't want to commit to anything because I lived 2 hours away in a different part of the state. Then when I moved to the same cityish place, he told me he never thought of me as anything more than a friend. We stopped talking a little over a year ago (which is a huge success on my part) and he's now engaged (yeah that timeline is a little concerning). So maybe a month ago now I matched with a guy on a dating app (because that's like the only way to meet people now) and the first april fool's joke: it was the guy I used to kind of see's younger brother (still a year older than me). Which I wasn't sure about until the end. Because I live in that small of a place. I was supposed to go out with the guy and the night before (April Fool's Day) he canceled the date and unmatched me and I'm pretty sure he figured out who I was from his brother who is engaged and only saw me as a friend anyway so why the heck would he even care or why should he have an opinion on this???? So this guy who I haven't seen in years really just decided to come back and mess with me a little more because that's fun. All in all, I'm okay. Glad I'm leaving this state and moving to an actual city in a few months. |
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Post by TimeOfMyLife on Apr 21, 2022 8:38:18 GMT -5
I'm ready to burn the world down right now. I don't know if I'm more angry or sad about the fact that the universe seems to just be laughing at me right now but this feels like a giant april fools day prank and I'm really done with it. Okay now that I'm a lot less ready to burn the world down. starting about 5 years ago, I was kind of seeing someone for about a year and a half who didn't want to commit to anything because I lived 2 hours away in a different part of the state. Then when I moved to the same cityish place, he told me he never thought of me as anything more than a friend. We stopped talking a little over a year ago (which is a huge success on my part) and he's now engaged (yeah that timeline is a little concerning). So maybe a month ago now I matched with a guy on a dating app (because that's like the only way to meet people now) and the first april fool's joke: it was the guy I used to kind of see's younger brother (still a year older than me). Which I wasn't sure about until the end. Because I live in that small of a place. I was supposed to go out with the guy and the night before (April Fool's Day) he canceled the date and unmatched me and I'm pretty sure he figured out who I was from his brother who is engaged and only saw me as a friend anyway so why the heck would he even care or why should he have an opinion on this???? So this guy who I haven't seen in years really just decided to come back and mess with me a little more because that's fun. All in all, I'm okay. Glad I'm leaving this state and moving to an actual city in a few months. A lot of guys (and girls) randomly unmatch people, once they meet other people or look once again how their match look like, they unmatch. That s almost 'normal'. So I'm not sure if they found out who you are or that it's just a coincidence. Annoying for you anyway :/ |
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Post by chantel on Apr 21, 2022 11:52:18 GMT -5
I'm trying to force myself back onto dating apps because life is boring right now. Most of the guys on dating apps I think are unattractive, but the guys that are attractive I've learned to be highly suspicious of lol. They don't want real relationships.
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Post by JDMaleSwiftie on May 6, 2022 12:24:03 GMT -5
Know what sucks? When you like someone that is way out of your league. There is no way a girl like her would ever like someone like me I cannot imagine why she would.
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Post by SydneyPaige on May 6, 2022 14:06:20 GMT -5
Know what sucks? When you like someone that is way out of your league. There is no way a girl like her would ever like someone like me I cannot imagine why she would. Don’t speak so poorly of yourself JD. For all you know you could be exactly her type. |
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Post by sharonlovestaylor on May 8, 2022 20:17:31 GMT -5
Know what sucks? When you like someone that is way out of your league. There is no way a girl like her would ever like someone like me I cannot imagine why she would. Try and quit the negative thinking JD! You never know what kind of guy she likes! |
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Post by JDMaleSwiftie on May 8, 2022 22:35:32 GMT -5
Know what sucks? When you like someone that is way out of your league. There is no way a girl like her would ever like someone like me I cannot imagine why she would. Try and quit the negative thinking JD! You never know what kind of guy she likes! I know she could never like someone like me. It’s why I don’t even bother trying to talk to her at church because it’s pointless. Yeah I wish I had more self confidence, but unfortunately that’s just a major flaw. Don’t see that ever changing. Hope I’m wrong. |
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Post by sharonlovestaylor on May 8, 2022 23:31:32 GMT -5
Try and quit the negative thinking JD! You never know what kind of guy she likes! I know she could never like someone like me. It’s why I don’t even bother trying to talk to her at church because it’s pointless. Yeah I wish I had more self confidence, but unfortunately that’s just a major flaw. Don’t see that ever changing. Hope I’m wrong. You can do it JD!! You can talk to that girl at church! You can overcome your lack of selfconfidence! Just try saying hello and smiling at her. You don't have to have a big conversation or none at all if you don't want to but give her a chance. You never know what she will say or do. Just say HI! God won't strike you dead I promise. |
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Post by shandimusic94 on May 9, 2022 15:50:20 GMT -5
Try and quit the negative thinking JD! You never know what kind of guy she likes! I know she could never like someone like me. It’s why I don’t even bother trying to talk to her at church because it’s pointless. Yeah I wish I had more self confidence, but unfortunately that’s just a major flaw. Don’t see that ever changing. Hope I’m wrong. I agree with Sharon (and Sydney) here! You never know unless you try. Like Sharon said, simply say hi to her/acknowledge her at church, she might start a conversation with you. I wish you luck! |
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Post by sparksfly713 on May 10, 2022 17:02:29 GMT -5
Okay now that I'm a lot less ready to burn the world down. starting about 5 years ago, I was kind of seeing someone for about a year and a half who didn't want to commit to anything because I lived 2 hours away in a different part of the state. Then when I moved to the same cityish place, he told me he never thought of me as anything more than a friend. We stopped talking a little over a year ago (which is a huge success on my part) and he's now engaged (yeah that timeline is a little concerning). So maybe a month ago now I matched with a guy on a dating app (because that's like the only way to meet people now) and the first april fool's joke: it was the guy I used to kind of see's younger brother (still a year older than me). Which I wasn't sure about until the end. Because I live in that small of a place. I was supposed to go out with the guy and the night before (April Fool's Day) he canceled the date and unmatched me and I'm pretty sure he figured out who I was from his brother who is engaged and only saw me as a friend anyway so why the heck would he even care or why should he have an opinion on this???? So this guy who I haven't seen in years really just decided to come back and mess with me a little more because that's fun. All in all, I'm okay. Glad I'm leaving this state and moving to an actual city in a few months. A lot of guys (and girls) randomly unmatch people, once they meet other people or look once again how their match look like, they unmatch. That s almost 'normal'. So I'm not sure if they found out who you are or that it's just a coincidence. Annoying for you anyway :/ Oh no, I'm like 95% sure the older brother clued him in on who I am which is its own situation with everything he put me through. Really it just goes to show that being a jerk (or a much unkinder name) runs in the family. |
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Post by sharonlovestaylor on May 10, 2022 23:22:50 GMT -5
I'm so glad I don't have to date!
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Post by JDMaleSwiftie on May 18, 2022 21:40:28 GMT -5
Finally talked to my crush and it was a good conversation I suppose, but still don’t see anything materializing between us. In addition to that I feel like I need to protect her from myself because some of the personal issues I’ve got going on I would never ask a girl to take that on because it’s unfair to her.
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Post by TimeOfMyLife on May 20, 2022 5:09:15 GMT -5
Tonight my family (mom) will meet my girlfriend's family (mother-in-law), woahhh! I've never been in this situation, crazzzyyyy.
Even more crazy: My family is Dutch and hers is French, curious to see how that will be!
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