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Post by MyCastleCrumbledOvernight on Mar 8, 2022 21:56:22 GMT -5
officially catching feels. shoot me.
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Post by shandimusic94 on Mar 15, 2022 19:06:00 GMT -5
No big update or anything as I will probably keep things more private for now, but things are good. No plans to get married in the near future, but in a few years for sure.   |
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Post by Mew™ on Mar 16, 2022 17:48:24 GMT -5
No big update or anything as I will probably keep things more private for now, but things are good. No plans to get married in the near future, but in a few years for sure.  Yay! |
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Post by JDMaleSwiftie on Mar 18, 2022 3:45:38 GMT -5
There is a girl I like, but I highly doubt it’s mutual. Trying not to focus too much on that situation, but it’s tough.
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Post by shandimusic94 on Mar 18, 2022 12:42:17 GMT -5
There is a girl I like, but I highly doubt it’s mutual. Trying not to focus too much on that situation, but it’s tough. Ya never know. I would say continue to get to know her and being her friend, and if she likes you as well it'll all fall into place. |
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Post by sparksfly713 on Apr 2, 2022 12:12:09 GMT -5
I'm ready to burn the world down right now. I don't know if I'm more angry or sad about the fact that the universe seems to just be laughing at me right now but this feels like a giant april fools day prank and I'm really done with it.
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Post by SydneyPaige on Apr 2, 2022 18:30:14 GMT -5
I'm ready to burn the world down right now. I don't know if I'm more angry or sad about the fact that the universe seems to just be laughing at me right now but this feels like a giant april fools day prank and I'm really done with it. I don’t know what’s going on but I’m sorry that you’re hurting and I hope you’re okay. |
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Post by TimeOfMyLife on Apr 4, 2022 10:53:47 GMT -5
I went on a double date last weekend, it was really cool! A friend of my girlfriend and her boyfriend came to a city in the middle between us and them and we spent two days sightseeing! I think it's worth doing something similar again (with other friends)  |
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Post by sharonlovestaylor on Apr 5, 2022 22:06:03 GMT -5
I'm ready to burn the world down right now. I don't know if I'm more angry or sad about the fact that the universe seems to just be laughing at me right now but this feels like a giant april fools day prank and I'm really done with it. hang in there |
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Post by shandimusic94 on Apr 10, 2022 19:40:38 GMT -5
I had so much fun with him last night/today  I think we're gonna go see the new Fantastic Beasts next weekend too  |
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Post by JDMaleSwiftie on Apr 10, 2022 21:57:59 GMT -5
Had a date last night it was fun I suppose, but my biggest takeaway is I’m so incredibly awkward with women. It’s not cute or funny it’s honestly embarrassing. Just even more reason to believe I’m destined to be single forever.
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Post by MyCastleCrumbledOvernight on Apr 10, 2022 22:03:21 GMT -5
he wants to talk aaaaallll the time and like I’m working most of the time, and when I have free time I want it to be me time. I feel bad because I know we’re in a relationship and I should probably wanna talk to him all the time too, but it’s annoying when his bitmoji is staring at me before I can even start typing. All I can ever think is just like get a hobby man, there’s gotta be something he’s into besides me. I like him, I really really like him, but it’s long distance and we’re supposed to be taking things casual but this doesn’t feel like it. He was away all weekend on a camping trip and could only text me a few times and I loved it? I even missed him a little sometimes. And now that he’s back I’m just annoyed, and I feel bad that I’m annoyed. And it’s not like we haven’t talked about it, and he seems understanding, but then he acts so desperate all the time. I don’t wanna break up but I also don’t know why I’m even in a relationship if I hate it so much 😒 I think the thing I hate the most are the good morning and good nights, like I don’t even tell my family good morning, I’m not a morning person, and when I feel obligated to tell him goodnight I keep putting it off because he always gets so sad and sappy about it and then I don’t get enough sleep. I dunno, I’m just not ready to be someone’s everything and I think it’s a bit ridiculous for him to be acting this way one month end, especially when I don’t really reciprocate. I’m aware that I’m a bad girlfriend and I’m just wondering when it’s gonna click with him that I’m not going to waste my life away on my phone texting idle chit chat. I think that one phone call lasting till 2am a week and a few texts throughout the day is more than enough for something that’s supposed to be casual, I’m just not into devoting my life to my relationship at this stage, I have too many other aspirations to focus on as it is…
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Post by JDMaleSwiftie on Apr 10, 2022 22:11:04 GMT -5
he wants to talk aaaaallll the time and like I’m working most of the time, and when I have free time I want it to be me time. I feel bad because I know we’re in a relationship and I should probably wanna talk to him all the time too, but it’s annoying when his bitmoji is staring at me before I can even start typing. All I can ever think is just like get a hobby man, there’s gotta be something he’s into besides me. I like him, I really really like him, but it’s long distance and we’re supposed to be taking things casual but this doesn’t feel like it. He was away all weekend on a camping trip and could only text me a few times and I loved it? I even missed him a little sometimes. And now that he’s back I’m just annoyed, and I feel bad that I’m annoyed. And it’s not like we haven’t talked about it, and he seems understanding, but then he acts so desperate all the time. I don’t wanna break up but I also don’t know why I’m even in a relationship if I hate it so much 😒 I think the thing I hate the most are the good morning and good nights, like I don’t even tell my family good morning, I’m not a morning person, and when I feel obligated to tell him goodnight I keep putting it off because he always gets so sad and sappy about it and then I don’t get enough sleep. I dunno, I’m just not ready to be someone’s everything and I think it’s a bit ridiculous for him to be acting this way one month end, especially when I don’t really reciprocate. I’m aware that I’m a bad girlfriend and I’m just wondering when it’s gonna click with him that I’m not going to waste my life away on my phone texting idle chit chat. I think that one phone call lasting till 2am a week and a few texts throughout the day is more than enough for something that’s supposed to be casual, I’m just not into devoting my life to my relationship at this stage, I have too many other aspirations to focus on as it is… I don’t think you should want to talk to this guy all the time. I’m no expert, but any relationship that is going to be successful need to have boundaries. It sounds to me like he’s grown too emotionally attached to you and it’s left you feeling smothered. Personally I’ve been like that in the past when I get too emotionally attached and smother people whether it was girls I like or even my friends. I’ve had to learn to give people space and have boundaries in my friendships or relationships otherwise I would’ve just pushed the people in my life away. |
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Post by MyCastleCrumbledOvernight on Apr 10, 2022 22:15:24 GMT -5
Had a date last night it was fun I suppose, but my biggest takeaway is I’m so incredibly awkward with women. It’s not cute or funny it’s honestly embarrassing. Just even more reason to believe I’m destined to be single forever. Heck I’m awkward with everyone of any gender, I think the only people I can have a social interaction with without dying of embarrassment is old people, they seem to like me for some reason. It’s just something you gotta get used to, it’s easier to be friends first I think |
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Post by MyCastleCrumbledOvernight on Apr 10, 2022 22:20:16 GMT -5
he wants to talk aaaaallll the time and like I’m working most of the time, and when I have free time I want it to be me time. I feel bad because I know we’re in a relationship and I should probably wanna talk to him all the time too, but it’s annoying when his bitmoji is staring at me before I can even start typing. All I can ever think is just like get a hobby man, there’s gotta be something he’s into besides me. I like him, I really really like him, but it’s long distance and we’re supposed to be taking things casual but this doesn’t feel like it. He was away all weekend on a camping trip and could only text me a few times and I loved it? I even missed him a little sometimes. And now that he’s back I’m just annoyed, and I feel bad that I’m annoyed. And it’s not like we haven’t talked about it, and he seems understanding, but then he acts so desperate all the time. I don’t wanna break up but I also don’t know why I’m even in a relationship if I hate it so much 😒 I think the thing I hate the most are the good morning and good nights, like I don’t even tell my family good morning, I’m not a morning person, and when I feel obligated to tell him goodnight I keep putting it off because he always gets so sad and sappy about it and then I don’t get enough sleep. I dunno, I’m just not ready to be someone’s everything and I think it’s a bit ridiculous for him to be acting this way one month end, especially when I don’t really reciprocate. I’m aware that I’m a bad girlfriend and I’m just wondering when it’s gonna click with him that I’m not going to waste my life away on my phone texting idle chit chat. I think that one phone call lasting till 2am a week and a few texts throughout the day is more than enough for something that’s supposed to be casual, I’m just not into devoting my life to my relationship at this stage, I have too many other aspirations to focus on as it is… I don’t think you should want to talk to this guy all the time. I’m no expert, but any relationship that is going to be successful need to have boundaries. It sounds to me like he’s grown too emotionally attached to you and it’s left you feeling smothered. Personally I’ve been like that in the past when I get too emotionally attached and smother people whether it was girls I like or even my friends. I’ve had to learn to give people space and have boundaries in my friendships or relationships otherwise I would’ve just pushed the people in my life away. Yeah, that’s exactly what he’s doing and it’s a tough one. I’ve been that way myself with friends, being with them was the only way I could be remotely happy and when I lost them I had to learn how to live with just me because I’m the person I gotta deal with for the rest of my life, and now I’m truly happy with just myself. He’s a little younger than me and I feel like he hasn’t really hit that stage yet, and I guess I worry if I placate him he never will. I don’t think that he’s immature exactly but he certainly still has some growing up to do… |
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