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Post by Roman on Sept 15, 2022 11:06:31 GMT -5
I've been meaning to upgrade my SSD in my desktop for awhile now. All of my projects from college took up a ton of space on my computer. The way my desktop is designed makes it difficult to get to the SSD so I haven't felt like doing it myself. Anyway the guy I've been dating offered to come over and do it. He met Kairi too. I couldn't tell if she liked him or not lol. She kept barking at him in his face then licking his beard. He played tug of war with her. Men play too rough with dogs I had to calm them down but she looked like she was having fun. Kick him to the curb…major red flag…he likes dogs…  |
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Post by chantel on Sept 15, 2022 11:24:16 GMT -5
I've been meaning to upgrade my SSD in my desktop for awhile now. All of my projects from college took up a ton of space on my computer. The way my desktop is designed makes it difficult to get to the SSD so I haven't felt like doing it myself. Anyway the guy I've been dating offered to come over and do it. He met Kairi too. I couldn't tell if she liked him or not lol. She kept barking at him in his face then licking his beard. He played tug of war with her. Men play too rough with dogs I had to calm them down but she looked like she was having fun. Kick him to the curb…major red flag…he likes dogs… It's a green flag for me!  |
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Post by DogLover on Sept 17, 2022 21:08:47 GMT -5
I've been meaning to upgrade my SSD in my desktop for awhile now. All of my projects from college took up a ton of space on my computer. The way my desktop is designed makes it difficult to get to the SSD so I haven't felt like doing it myself. Anyway the guy I've been dating offered to come over and do it. He met Kairi too. I couldn't tell if she liked him or not lol. She kept barking at him in his face then licking his beard. He played tug of war with her. Men play too rough with dogs I had to calm them down but she looked like she was having fun. Kick him to the curb…major red flag…he likes dogs… Hey now what is the matter with dogs  |
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Post by shandimusic94 on Sept 23, 2022 2:19:20 GMT -5
Happy rant happy rant happy rant  why so happy? Very very delayed response here, but we have worked things out and he has moved back in. I love him so much.  |
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Post by sharonlovestaylor on Sept 26, 2022 11:07:39 GMT -5
Very very delayed response here, but we have worked things out and he has moved back in. I love him so much. I'm happy for you! |
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Post by chantel on Sept 27, 2022 21:59:21 GMT -5
We've been spending a lot of time together. Almost everyday over the last week. We have really good chemistry. He's pretty helpful with doing tech related stuff for me. He setup one of my outdoor cameras for me that I couldn't reach to install. Two things I noticed I dislike about him. One of the things is if we have discussion and we disagree on a topic he shouldn't make me feel like my opinion is wrong. That's annoying and something I'm going to talk to him about. Also he was telling me that teenagers frequently use the laundry room in his apartment building to smoke. He got into an argument with them and went back to his apartment. They followed him back and started kicking his door and he pulled a gun out on them to threaten them. This is pretty concerning to me. It make me thinks he can't control his emotions and he's a former military guy too so idk about that. I would think differently if they actually managed to break into his apartment. Those are the only red flags I see right now. That second one is a big deal
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Post by chantel on Oct 21, 2022 16:53:19 GMT -5
We are going to a haunted house this weekend. I'm excited. Also we've been going on dates since mid August and he hasn't even had the exclusive bf/gf talk yet. Usually guys do that around the second date in my experience. I like him but if he doesn't ask by mid November I'm going to stop seeing him.
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Post by SydneyPaige on Oct 21, 2022 20:09:00 GMT -5
We are going to a haunted house this weekend. I'm excited. Also we've been going on dates since mid August and he hasn't even had the exclusive bf/gf talk yet. Usually guys do that around the second date in my experience. I like him but if he doesn't ask by mid November I'm going to stop seeing him. Just out of curiosity, would you be willing to ask him? |
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Post by chantel on Oct 21, 2022 20:48:58 GMT -5
We are going to a haunted house this weekend. I'm excited. Also we've been going on dates since mid August and he hasn't even had the exclusive bf/gf talk yet. Usually guys do that around the second date in my experience. I like him but if he doesn't ask by mid November I'm going to stop seeing him. Just out of curiosity, would you be willing to ask him? I wouldn't do that. I wouldn't be able to gauge his interest and intent that way. If I asked and he said yes I may think he's just saying that to go with the flow and not that he's actually interested because if he were he would ask. |
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Post by SydneyPaige on Oct 21, 2022 20:51:03 GMT -5
Just out of curiosity, would you be willing to ask him? I wouldn't do that. I wouldn't be able to gauge his interest and intent that way. If I asked and he said yes I may think he's just saying that to go with the flow and not that he's actually interested because if he were he would ask. That's fair! |
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Post by Roman on Oct 22, 2022 2:04:59 GMT -5
Just out of curiosity, would you be willing to ask him? I wouldn't do that. I wouldn't be able to gauge his interest and intent that way. If I asked and he said yes I may think he's just saying that to go with the flow and not that he's actually interested because if he were he would ask. Maybe he thinks it’s implied. I assume he’s not interested in other women. So I wouldn’t be too formal with specifically being asked to be exclusive. Men don’t like having too many things going on simultaneously. It’s mostly: eat, sleep, work, hobby, you. No room for other people or adventures. |
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Post by chantel on Oct 22, 2022 9:12:47 GMT -5
I wouldn't do that. I wouldn't be able to gauge his interest and intent that way. If I asked and he said yes I may think he's just saying that to go with the flow and not that he's actually interested because if he were he would ask. Maybe he thinks it’s implied. I assume he’s not interested in other women. So I wouldn’t be too formal with specifically being asked to be exclusive. Men don’t like having too many things going on simultaneously. It’s mostly: eat, sleep, work, hobby, you. No room for other people or adventures. I would maybe think it's implied if we met in a more natural setting but we met on a dating app. A couple of weeks ago he asked if I was still on the dating app and I said yeah and he said he was too but he doesn't check it anymore. I feel like that would've been the time for him to ask so I don't want to just assume. |
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Post by Roman on Oct 22, 2022 10:06:28 GMT -5
Maybe he thinks it’s implied. I assume he’s not interested in other women. So I wouldn’t be too formal with specifically being asked to be exclusive. Men don’t like having too many things going on simultaneously. It’s mostly: eat, sleep, work, hobby, you. No room for other people or adventures. I would maybe think it's implied if we met in a more natural setting but we met on a dating app. A couple of weeks ago he asked if I was still on the dating app and I said yeah and he said he was too but he doesn't check it anymore. I feel like that would've been the time for him to ask so I don't want to just assume. Okay. That doesn’t sound very committed indeed. |
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Post by chantel on Oct 25, 2022 14:05:42 GMT -5
We did the haunted house and I'm never doing another one again. I've never been to one that had an outside portion. Even being in line prior to entering was scary because the people were dressed in costumes and would randomly pop up behind me. I feel like they were specifically targeting me. When we got in it was pitch dark and they kept running past us and one stepped on my foot. I had the guy I was with in front of me and I was holding on the back of his shirt the whole time. He said he felt like he was getting choked out by me and that was the only scary thing about the haunted house lol. Him being in front didn't help when they'd pop up from the side or behind though. Sometimes they'd split us up so we had to go different paths. He wants to go to another one but I don't think I'm cut out for it if they were as bad as this one.
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Post by sharonlovestaylor on Oct 27, 2022 22:32:37 GMT -5
We did the haunted house and I'm never doing another one again. I've never been to one that had an outside portion. Even being in line prior to entering was scary because the people were dressed in costumes and would randomly pop up behind me. I feel like they were specifically targeting me. When we got in it was pitch dark and they kept running past us and one stepped on my foot. I had the guy I was with in front of me and I was holding on the back of his shirt the whole time. He said he felt like he was getting choked out by me and that was the only scary thing about the haunted house lol. Him being in front didn't help when they'd pop up from the side or behind though. Sometimes they'd split us up so we had to go different paths. He wants to go to another one but I don't think I'm cut out for it if they were as bad as this one. I don't like haunted houses either. The last time I went to one I was so scared I hyperventilated! |
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