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Post by sparksfly713 on Dec 3, 2017 13:39:32 GMT -5
I really just want to scream right now
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Post by taytaytay on Dec 3, 2017 17:40:52 GMT -5
Never understood how my fellow classmates have time to be in a relationship when I'm sitting over here trying to balance school work, APs, SATs and a consistent sleep schedule. lmao me My friends have been pushing for me to get with this guy and I'm like ??? Where am I meant to fit in a boyfriend between uni and work and student council and trying to lead a healthy lifestyle???
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Post by AMessOfADreamerx on Dec 3, 2017 17:44:13 GMT -5
I've never had a boyfriend, never been on a date, never had a first kiss and I'm currently 19 years old. I don't blame anyone though, I'm ugly and shy and awkward. I'm almost 24 and I'm in your same situation! But it has nothing to do with our looks. I think we just require truly special guys to handle who we are and they are definitely out there!
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Post by sparksfly713 on Dec 3, 2017 19:18:06 GMT -5
I still feel really meh about all of this and I don't know. do I have the "what are we" conversation this week or let it keep going the way it is? is setting myself up to get hurt really badly going to be worth it? because this is going to go really well or really badly and I'm leaning towards really badly
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Post by Roman on Dec 4, 2017 16:03:00 GMT -5
I was at a birthday party last Saturday. I had a good time talking to a girl I know from highschool. We even talked about Taylor. After something like that my mind always starts playing tricks on me. It’s a path I need to stay away from.
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Post by JDMaleSwiftie on Dec 4, 2017 18:18:45 GMT -5
Sometimes it is a little deflating not having a romantic life.
Not gonna lie. Seeing so many people in my life have one makes me a little envious.
Then again sometimes I see a lot of the issues that exist in those relationships or how they end and then I’m like I’m good lol.
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Post by TaylorSwiftFan on Dec 7, 2017 19:31:37 GMT -5
I posted this on 'Taylor Connect' a little while ago but this song ( 'On My Own' by Niall Horan) describes me in a way... "Everybody's got somebody...I just wanna be alone..."
"Well I don't need no one...Have too much fun...Out here on my own..."
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Post by taytaytay on Dec 8, 2017 14:07:31 GMT -5
My flatmates are determined to set me up with my best friend's flatmate (who is also my flatmate's best friend) but then that best friend is trying to set me up with another boy and apparently I have no say in my love life these days
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Post by underlinehad on Dec 8, 2017 14:13:22 GMT -5
I've never had a boyfriend, never been on a date, never had a first kiss and I'm currently 19 years old. I don't blame anyone though, I'm ugly and shy and awkward. Relatable. I've never had a boyfriend or been kissed either. The only differences are I've been on 1 date and I'm over 19 years old. I bet you're not as ugly as you think or say you are though. Mew, Callie isn't ugly at all. I may never have seen a picture of her, but i know she isn't...
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Post by TaylorSwiftFan on Dec 8, 2017 17:40:13 GMT -5
Relatable. I've never had a boyfriend or been kissed either. The only differences are I've been on 1 date and I'm over 19 years old. I bet you're not as ugly as you think or say you are though. Mew, Callie isn't ugly at all. I may never have seen a picture of her, but i know she isn't... I am though. I wish I was even 1/16th of how pretty Taylor is...
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Post by underlinehad on Dec 8, 2017 17:42:19 GMT -5
Mew, Callie isn't ugly at all. I may never have seen a picture of her, but i know she isn't... I am though. I wish I was even 1/16th of how pretty Taylor is... i refuse to believe that you're ugly. There are people in this world i would believe it of, because their actions prove it... but you aren't one of them.
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Post by sparksfly713 on Dec 9, 2017 22:20:30 GMT -5
well we had that conversation. kind of? we left it at neither of us know where to go from here because he doesn't want to do the long distance (2 hours and we live in the same state) and I don't want that inbetween stuff to continue. The worst is that if I still lived in the town that I went to school in, he said this wouldn't be a problem and we probably would be dating right now. We're taking a few days to process and then coming back to it in a few days. and as predicted, I was the one to get hurt. again.
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Post by ketsiyahkeren on Dec 9, 2017 22:28:19 GMT -5
I've never had a boyfriend, never been on a date, never had a first kiss and I'm currently 19 years old. I don't blame anyone though, I'm ugly and shy and awkward. Relatable. I've never had a boyfriend or been kissed either. The only differences are I've been on 1 date and I'm over 19 years old. I bet you're not as ugly as you think or say you are though. I am in the same boat as you two lovely lady's. Except, I am eighteen. There is this guy I like though and I think he likes me. He's just really confusing because he gives me signles and then dosen't talk to me and I don't know what to do. I literary pray all the time about him because I just want shine the light on God and not mess this up. I don't know if I should tell him I like him or not. Any advice?
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Post by ketsiyahkeren on Dec 9, 2017 22:40:23 GMT -5
I've never had a boyfriend, never been on a date, never had a first kiss and I'm currently 19 years old. I don't blame anyone though, I'm ugly and shy and awkward. I'm almost 24 and I'm in your same situation! But it has nothing to do with our looks. I think we just require truly special guys to handle who we are and they are definitely out there! I couldn't agree more. I go to college, run a ranch and am currently trying to promote my upcoming album. I am so busy but somehow I met this really amazing guy and I really like him and I can't remember how I lived before I met him.
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Post by ketsiyahkeren on Dec 9, 2017 22:43:24 GMT -5
I am in the same boat as you two lovely lady's. Except, I am eighteen. There is this guy I like though and I think he likes me. He's just really confusing because he gives me signles and then dosen't talk to me and I don't know what to do. I literary pray all the time about him because I just want shine the light on God and not mess this up. I don't know if I should tell him I like him or not. Any advice? Oh my god I'm crying. I'm not a lady. I'm a guy. But with your guy problems, remember he's a guy. Most of us are about as dense as the next rock you pick up. Maybe even denser. If I were in your position, I'd talk to him more. If things are clicking and you can feel the chemistry between you and he's still not saying anything, by all means make the first move. Let him know how you feel. Don't wait for him to do it. Oh My Gosh!!! Thank you!! I don't have any men in my life to give me advice so I really appreciate it!!
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