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Post by taytaytay on Dec 31, 2017 17:14:10 GMT -5
Ex-boyfriend viewed my snapchat story today for literally the first time since we broke up and now I feel gross
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Post by JDMaleSwiftie on Dec 31, 2017 18:35:06 GMT -5
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Post by Deleted on Dec 31, 2017 18:41:50 GMT -5
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Post by Deleted on Dec 31, 2017 20:42:31 GMT -5
Just my luck if a guy has ever flirted with me he was either a) being nice and I mistook it for flirting or b) one of those people that flirts with everyone.
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Post by JDMaleSwiftie on Dec 31, 2017 21:50:05 GMT -5
Just my luck if a guy has ever flirted with me he was either a) being nice and I mistook it for flirting or b) one of those people that flirts with everyone. I’ve had this same issue. It’s so hard for me to tell if a girl is flirting with me or sometimes I’m too stupid to realize it lol. |
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Post by TaylorSwiftFan on Dec 31, 2017 23:24:21 GMT -5
Just my luck if a guy has ever flirted with me he was either a) being nice and I mistook it for flirting or b) one of those people that flirts with everyone. I’ve had this same issue. It’s so hard for me to tell if a girl is flirting with me or sometimes I’m too stupid to realize it lol. I know nothing about dating whatsoever so I would be confused if anyone was flirting with me. No one would ever do that anyways... |
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Post by JDMaleSwiftie on Dec 31, 2017 23:37:26 GMT -5
I’ve had this same issue. It’s so hard for me to tell if a girl is flirting with me or sometimes I’m too stupid to realize it lol. I know nothing about dating whatsoever so I would be confused if anyone was flirting with me. No one would ever do that anyways... I feel similarly. I know I’m a sweet guy or whatever, but I mean I just feel there are way better guys out there that girls would be interested in. Like what’s so special about me? Not awhole lot. |
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Post by TaylorSwiftFan on Dec 31, 2017 23:38:11 GMT -5
I know nothing about dating whatsoever so I would be confused if anyone was flirting with me. No one would ever do that anyways... I feel similarly. I know I’m a sweet guy or whatever, but I mean I just feel there are way better guys out there that girls would be interested in. Like what’s so special about me? Not awhole lot. I understand why no one likes me. I'm socially awkward, unattractive, etc. (I could go on and on). |
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Post by JDMaleSwiftie on Dec 31, 2017 23:38:45 GMT -5
I feel similarly. I know I’m a sweet guy or whatever, but I mean I just feel there are way better guys out there that girls would be interested in. Like what’s so special about me? Not awhole lot. I understand why no one likes me. I'm socially awkward, unattractive, etc. (I could go on and on). Me too. |
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Post by taytaytay on Jan 1, 2018 1:35:45 GMT -5
You guys need to work on your confidence
People who are absolutely awful end up in relationships so there's no reason decent people like you guys won't if you're just a bit more confident
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Post by JDMaleSwiftie on Jan 1, 2018 1:43:53 GMT -5
I guess you’re right.
I mean I do feel a could be a pretty good boyfriend to someone, but just feel something is missing there.
Like I can envision myself being with someone, being with a beautiful girl, treating her well, doing all the right things, but still at the end of the day feeling like I’m not good enough and having that self doubt and being so worried in the end they’ll see I’m nothing special.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 2, 2018 22:49:41 GMT -5
I am undateable. No one will ever love me. I will die alone.
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Post by flirt on Jan 2, 2018 22:55:58 GMT -5
I am giving up on the boy whose band I've been managing. One minute I think he likes me back and the next he's with his ex again. I've wasted a year on him and I'm moving on
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Post by JDMaleSwiftie on Jan 2, 2018 23:04:56 GMT -5
I am giving up on the boy whose band I've been managing. One minute I think he likes me back and the next he's with his ex again. I've wasted a year on him and I'm moving on That is best thing to do in a situation like that. I understand wanting to be with someone you really like obviously, but if you’ve wasted that long on someone and they keep going back to their ex well there is really no point in continuing to do that yourself. Good for you that you’re able to realize that because a lot of people in a similar situation wouldn’t have. |
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Post by JDMaleSwiftie on Jan 2, 2018 23:59:45 GMT -5
This doesn’t really about my romantic life or pertain to me, but my cousin.
I spent last weekend with him and his fiancé for New Year’s.
We had an in-depth discussion about them getting engaged and just about her in general and honestly just told him I was really happy for him.
He went through a really nasty divorce previously that almost destroyed him. I had always told him just to hang in there not only for his sake, but his son and my little cousin. He did that. Told him that I thought he could find someone else and be happy and maybe even eventually get married again.
Well that has happened or at least is gonna happen. He’s really happy now and he should be. She’s really awesome. Really awesome and cool person to be around. She’s social and really made an effort to get to know me because she knows how close me and my cousin are.
I’ve always appreciated people who are like that. I’ve really gotten to know her and it’s really just a reminder that at the end of the day no matter how hopeless things are at times and when it seems like you’ll never find someone or find true love or whatever you wanna call It that couldn’t be further from the truth.
I told my cousin I hope I’m lucky enough to find someone as great as his fiancé and honestly I think I can. Think anyone can. You just have maintain that belief and realize that with all the people in the world you aren’t meant to be alone and someone who will come around when you least expect it and make you happier than you ever imagined you’d be.
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