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Post by SomeFearlessChick on Jan 7, 2021 20:53:16 GMT -5
Work has been so terrible lately  I feel like I'm not being recognized or compensated for my hard work and it suckssss I've been job hunting these past few months and there really hasn't been any new jobs because of the pandemic I am sorry to hear you are having a rough time. I hope you find something more suitable soon.🤞 |
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Post by taytaytay on Jan 8, 2021 14:31:49 GMT -5
I think if you have a successful enough business to become wealthy than you should be able to spend your money as you see fit but Jeff Bezos' wealth is insane mkorostoff.github.io/1-pixel-wealth/Apparently Elon Musk has now surpassed Jeff Bezos as richest man in the world. I wonder how taytaytay feels about that  eat the rich |
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Post by SomeFearlessChick on Jan 17, 2021 6:01:40 GMT -5
It's really hard to overcome the reality that the people you hold so highly, don't hold you in the same regard. I didn't think maintaining friendships was so difficult but apparently people have completely different ideas of what constitutes a 'friend'. I either have people in one pile or the other. In 'close friend' or 'other people I see on a semi-regular basis', but apparently one of my close friends does not interpret friendship the same way I do. If I think one of my close (or heck, even not so close) friends is in trouble, depending on the issue, I usually drop what I'm doing and do my best to assist them. I thought this was normal in friendships. I like to know where I stand with people and I don't like greyness, so I asked one of my apparent close friends to be honest with me tonight and explain what she thinks our friendship actually is (after an incident today), and it's come to my attention that she would in fact, not, attend to me if I really needed it. I'm kind of destroyed but also so numb that I'm trying to blow the feeling off. I hate that this was not made plain to me sooner. And people wonder why I haven't dated when it's this difficult to have a 'friend' on the same bloody page as you. I'm coming to hate loyalty as such a strong basis of my character because apparently this does not match the majority's idea of friendship.
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Post by Roman on Jan 17, 2021 13:24:30 GMT -5
It's really hard to overcome the reality that the people you hold so highly, don't hold you in the same regard. I didn't think maintaining friendships was so difficult but apparently people have completely different ideas of what constitutes a 'friend'. I either have people in one pile or the other. In 'close friend' or 'other people I see on a semi-regular basis', but apparently one of my close friends does not interpret friendship the same way I do. If I think one of my close (or heck, even not so close) friends is in trouble, depending on the issue, I usually drop what I'm doing and do my best to assist them. I thought this was normal in friendships. I like to know where I stand with people and I don't like greyness, so I asked one of my apparent close friends to be honest with me tonight and explain what she thinks our friendship actually is (after an incident today), and it's come to my attention that she would in fact, not, attend to me if I really needed it. I'm kind of destroyed but also so numb that I'm trying to blow the feeling off. I hate that this was not made plain to me sooner. And people wonder why I haven't dated when it's this difficult to have a 'friend' on the same bloody page as you. I'm coming to hate loyalty as such a strong basis of my character because apparently this does not match the majority's idea of friendship. Heey, don’t talk down on your good qualities. Loyalty is a really important quality. In fact, someone who doesn’t score high on loyalty is not capable of being a good friend, let alone partner. I understand that you are disappointed. Discovering someone important to you doesn’t match your standards can be heartbreaking. It doesn’t necessarily mean you need to cut them off entirely. But it’s hard to get used to a healthy level of involvement with that person. Personally I’m always looking for the entire package in one person; for that one person who has it all. But since I didn’t manage to find someone like that, I try to define my relationship with people sharply. That way I know what to expect and when to turn to someone else. |
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Post by Deleted on Jan 29, 2021 20:15:07 GMT -5
Work has been so terrible lately I feel like I'm not being recognized or compensated for my hard work and it suckssss I've been job hunting these past few months and there really hasn't been any new jobs because of the pandemic I am sorry to hear you are having a rough time. I hope you find something more suitable soon.🤞 Thank you!!! Still job hunting but something will come around eventually  |
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Post by chantel on Feb 6, 2021 19:25:32 GMT -5
My mom randomly invited my cousin and his family over today. Usually I would have my bedroom door locked and come out if I feel like it but she didn't tell me that they were coming so the door wasn't locked. You know how when you are in your own private space you can look ugly and not care? So my hair is a mess, my stache area needs to be waxed and I have some ugly night clothes on. All of a sudden my cousin along with his kids bursts in my room and starts talking to me. I was so mad and embarrassed to have someone barge in like that unexpectedly especially when I don't want to be seen by anyone looking ugly. I guess he picked up on me being mad but has he never heard of knocking. I thought it wasn't worth moving out since I don't have any bills or rent to pay while I'm here and I could just save for a house. I'm starting to rethink that but apartments are so expensive here.
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Post by shandimusic94 on Feb 12, 2021 19:41:43 GMT -5
My mom randomly invited my cousin and his family over today. Usually I would have my bedroom door locked and come out if I feel like it but she didn't tell me that they were coming so the door wasn't locked. You know how when you are in your own private space you can look ugly and not care? So my hair is a mess, my stache area needs to be waxed and I have some ugly night clothes on. All of a sudden my cousin along with his kids bursts in my room and starts talking to me. I was so mad and embarrassed to have someone barge in like that unexpectedly especially when I don't want to be seen by anyone looking ugly. I guess he picked up on me being mad but has he never heard of knocking. I thought it wasn't worth moving out since I don't have any bills or rent to pay while I'm here and I could just save for a house. I'm starting to rethink that but apartments are so expensive here. That is so rude that he didn't knock. I mean it's one thing if your sibling barges in (still super annoying) but a cousin you don't see as often? A grown man with his own children at that? He 100% should have knocked. Also, in a way it's worth it to move out into an apartment but also apartment life sucks. I'm hoping when our lease is up we can find a house to rent instead but we'll see. |
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Post by chantel on Feb 12, 2021 20:49:13 GMT -5
My mom randomly invited my cousin and his family over today. Usually I would have my bedroom door locked and come out if I feel like it but she didn't tell me that they were coming so the door wasn't locked. You know how when you are in your own private space you can look ugly and not care? So my hair is a mess, my stache area needs to be waxed and I have some ugly night clothes on. All of a sudden my cousin along with his kids bursts in my room and starts talking to me. I was so mad and embarrassed to have someone barge in like that unexpectedly especially when I don't want to be seen by anyone looking ugly. I guess he picked up on me being mad but has he never heard of knocking. I thought it wasn't worth moving out since I don't have any bills or rent to pay while I'm here and I could just save for a house. I'm starting to rethink that but apartments are so expensive here. That is so rude that he didn't knock. I mean it's one thing if your sibling barges in (still super annoying) but a cousin you don't see as often? A grown man with his own children at that? He 100% should have knocked. Also, in a way it's worth it to move out into an apartment but also apartment life sucks. I'm hoping when our lease is up we can find a house to rent instead but we'll see. Exactly! But he thinks I was rude for not wanting him in there and said I should be more pleasant next time lol. Apartment life does suck. It's like lighting money on fire every month since you don't actually own it, the parking is always terrible, and if you have weird neighbors it'll suck. I hope you guys can find a house to rent! |
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Post by shandimusic94 on Feb 12, 2021 22:12:52 GMT -5
That is so rude that he didn't knock. I mean it's one thing if your sibling barges in (still super annoying) but a cousin you don't see as often? A grown man with his own children at that? He 100% should have knocked. Also, in a way it's worth it to move out into an apartment but also apartment life sucks. I'm hoping when our lease is up we can find a house to rent instead but we'll see. Exactly! But he thinks I was rude for not wanting him in there and said I should be more pleasant next time lol. Apartment life does suck. It's like lighting money on fire every month since you don't actually own it, the parking is always terrible, and if you have weird neighbors it'll suck. I hope you guys can find a house to rent! Every single one of those points are too painfully true. |
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Post by Deleted on Mar 4, 2021 14:57:26 GMT -5
I joke about shaving my hair off and wearing wigs but I’m starting to mean it. Every time I want to do something new with my hair it gets shot down or it doesn’t turn out how I wanted it to. Back in 2019, I wanted to do light purple underlights but that never happened because they would fade after a few washes and “it wasn’t worth it”. Eventually decided to get highlights but I haven’t been happy with them at all because my hair doesn’t look like the picture I saw. On top of that, one of the main reasons was for...a boy so I could be more attractive to him. Barf. Now I’m just tired of looking at them since I don’t talk to that person anymore. Today, I find a picture of someone’s hair and a few strands were light purple and some were light pink but no. That can’t be done either. I’m sick of it. Everyone else can get whatever they want done to their hair but not me. Granted, my mom and sisters never do colors like that but still. The point is, when they find something they like, they’re able to get it done and like it but when I find something, it either can’t be done or I end up not liking it. It’s freaking annoying. I just want to like my hair. I want pretty hair, too.
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Post by shandimusic94 on Mar 4, 2021 16:41:15 GMT -5
I joke about shaving my hair off and wearing wigs but I’m starting to mean it. Every time I want to do something new with my hair it gets shot down or it doesn’t turn out how I wanted it to. Back in 2019, I wanted to do light purple underlights but that never happened because they would fade after a few washes and “it wasn’t worth it”. Eventually decided to get highlights but I haven’t been happy with them at all because my hair doesn’t look like the picture I saw. On top of that, one of the main reasons was for...a boy so I could be more attractive to him. Barf. Now I’m just tired of looking at them since I don’t talk to that person anymore. Today, I find a picture of someone’s hair and a few strands were light purple and some were light pink but no. That can’t be done either. I’m sick of it. Everyone else can get whatever they want done to their hair but not me. Granted, my mom and sisters never do colors like that but still. The point is, when they find something they like, they’re able to get it done and like it but when I find something, it either can’t be done or I end up not liking it. It’s freaking annoying. I just want to like my hair. I want pretty hair, too. Save up some money and pay for it yourself! They can't stop you  I wish I had lighter hair so I could dye it fun colors. I think the pink and purple would look great on you! Or just purple if that's what you prefer haha I just like the idea of the combo. |
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Post by Deleted on Mar 5, 2021 13:12:57 GMT -5
I joke about shaving my hair off and wearing wigs but I’m starting to mean it. Every time I want to do something new with my hair it gets shot down or it doesn’t turn out how I wanted it to. Back in 2019, I wanted to do light purple underlights but that never happened because they would fade after a few washes and “it wasn’t worth it”. Eventually decided to get highlights but I haven’t been happy with them at all because my hair doesn’t look like the picture I saw. On top of that, one of the main reasons was for...a boy so I could be more attractive to him. Barf. Now I’m just tired of looking at them since I don’t talk to that person anymore. Today, I find a picture of someone’s hair and a few strands were light purple and some were light pink but no. That can’t be done either. I’m sick of it. Everyone else can get whatever they want done to their hair but not me. Granted, my mom and sisters never do colors like that but still. The point is, when they find something they like, they’re able to get it done and like it but when I find something, it either can’t be done or I end up not liking it. It’s freaking annoying. I just want to like my hair. I want pretty hair, too. My mom didn't want me to do my hair black so when I got money the first thing I did was do it myself. she just accepted it LOL seriously. if it consoles you my hair doesn't curl for crap. It never stays in. It doesn't take to much. I can't mold it at all. XD |
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Post by taytaytay on Mar 19, 2021 14:06:07 GMT -5
Such a minor vent, but my flatmates NEVER clean their dishes, and we literally have a dishwasher. I'm fed up. Tonight I wanted to just make myself some pasta but there's no clean pans and it would just be so nice to be able to cook something without having to be the one to clean the dishes every day.
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Post by SomeFearlessChick on Mar 21, 2021 7:42:29 GMT -5
I joke about shaving my hair off and wearing wigs but I’m starting to mean it. Every time I want to do something new with my hair it gets shot down or it doesn’t turn out how I wanted it to. Back in 2019, I wanted to do light purple underlights but that never happened because they would fade after a few washes and “it wasn’t worth it”. Eventually decided to get highlights but I haven’t been happy with them at all because my hair doesn’t look like the picture I saw. On top of that, one of the main reasons was for...a boy so I could be more attractive to him. Barf. Now I’m just tired of looking at them since I don’t talk to that person anymore. Today, I find a picture of someone’s hair and a few strands were light purple and some were light pink but no. That can’t be done either. I’m sick of it. Everyone else can get whatever they want done to their hair but not me. Granted, my mom and sisters never do colors like that but still. The point is, when they find something they like, they’re able to get it done and like it but when I find something, it either can’t be done or I end up not liking it. It’s freaking annoying. I just want to like my hair. I want pretty hair, too. Do you mean your hair doesn't take to the bleach? Hair that is coloured pink, blue, purple, whatever, those not-so-generic colours, requires very good upkeep. Underneath it needs to be bleached, and like take it or leave it, but this permanently obliterates your hair, so unless you live and breathe to have it done, I agree that "it's not worth it". What about clip-ins/extensions? Otherwise, *mum voice* I would just embrace what you have. Like my hair is not that special, but my hairdresser helped me see otherwise. Now I embrace its colour and straightness and just do a full pin-straight kim k look 🤷 |
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Post by SomeFearlessChick on Mar 21, 2021 7:42:50 GMT -5
Such a minor vent, but my flatmates NEVER clean their dishes, and we literally have a dishwasher. I'm fed up. Tonight I wanted to just make myself some pasta but there's no clean pans and it would just be so nice to be able to cook something without having to be the one to clean the dishes every day. Yess this would drive me bonkers |
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I wish I had lighter hair so I could dye it fun colors. I think the pink and purple would look great on you! Or just purple if that's what you prefer haha I just like the idea of the combo.